Where The Biological Attraction Triggers Come From
Ok, so where does all this “girls respond to personality”, “guys respond to looks” come from?
Well, it actually comes the pre-historic days due to the fact that we’re all nothing but glorified cavemen and cavewomen. Basically, humans have been around for upto 400,000 years, but modern humans have only been around a tiny proportion of that time. This means that our attraction “switches” come from our cavemen day!
And back in the day, men were the hunters and leaders… while the women were nurturers and gatherers.
So from the early ages, men would mate to women with good looks so she’d give him healthy children (In fact, that’s how “blond hair” developed, because men favoured women with lighter colored hair).
On the other hand, women would mate with the men who had the most social status and strength, so that he’d give her children the best chance of survival… GOOD LOOKS had nothing to do with it.
So How Do You Use This Knowledge To Your Advantage
Ok, so now you know that looks don’t matter when it comes to attracting women and getting a girlfriend… and you also know WHY it has come about… so how do you use it to your advantage?
Easy… develop your personality!
You don’t need money, you don’t need looks, you don’t need a high paying job… your personality is something you will always have and be able to develop, and you can always use it to attract women on adultfrienedfinder.
So what do I mean by develop your personality?
Think of developing the following characteristics:
- Sense of Humor
- Vocal Projection
- Conversation Skills
- Body Language
In further posts, I’ll provide details on how to develop each of the above characteristics (and more), but for now just understand that they’re of most importance.
Where Looks DO Matter (But It’s Not What You Think)
Now that I’ve done a full explaination of why good looks DON’T matter, I’m going to contridict myself and explain to you how looks DO affect your chances with women.
The fact is, no matter WHO you are or what you physically look like, I can make you “good looking” in the eyes of women… how?
By using clothing, hairstyle, acessories and other fashion to excentuate your personality… THATS how!
So if you’re younger and want to show a personality that’s fun and outgoing, I’d give you a mowhawk, pericings, rings, belt buckle and the clothing to match.
And if you’re older and want to show a personality of sofistication and class (because that’s the sort of girlfriend you want – the one that uses thrusting vibrators ), I’d chuck you in a fancy looking suit with accessories to match, and put you in a high-class hotel bar.
The thing is, it may sound expensive to obtain all the above fashion items, but the truth is… it doesn’t have to cost a lot! It’s all about the percieved value, NOT the actual cost.